For his entire life, Margaret Mliwa’s late father, Stanley, had given his time and money to serve people in need. Margaret, who was the eighth of his 10 children, had chosen to follow in his footsteps. But it had not been an easy choice, and now, in her mid-50s and on the eve of her birthday in April 2019, she wondered about how to keep her philanthropic activity in balance with the rest of her life.